Yesterday I posted an old logo from Musings of a Muse on Instagram as a result of I used to be questioning why I ever modified it. Should you return with me far sufficient you bear in mind Musings of a Muse with it’s catch phrase of “A Weblog from a Beauty Whore”. I modified that a few years in the past when my dev crew on the time advised me it wasn’t a great message and the way “politically incorrect” it could be. I query why I agreed to that change. It wasn’t genuine for me. I appreciated it and I hate I felt considerably shamed into believing I ought to change it.
I’ve at all times mentioned that inspiration strikes in bizarre locations and this specific submit comes from a a deep, considerate dialogue with a web-based pal late final night time.
We spent many hours deep into the early morning speaking and plenty of issues we’re mentioned however one factor that applies right here was our chat about labels and becoming right into a field that maybe somebody places you into or possibly society places you in. I actually imagine issues don’t have to be labeled and don’t want a reputation. You don’t need to validate your emotions or feelings by giving them a reputation or becoming them into an organized little field. Who you might be, who you goal to be, doesn’t have to be recognized. You don’t want to call it, you don’t have to label it, you don’t want somewhat sticker in your chest saying, “Hello my identify is Jane and I’m an over thinker or a bookworm or a nerd or an empowering lady (or man)….”
Don’t let somebody persuade you in your life or on this planet that you’ll want to match right into a field as a result of it’s the appropriate field for you and it has the appropriate label on it that fits you. I really feel like once I dropped that catch phrase I used to be letting somebody tuck me right into a field that felt higher suited. I match into the “magnificence blogger” field and I had the “magnificence blogger” label. And I don’t know if I appreciated that!
You don’t want a field, you don’t want a label, you be you and embrace who you might be. You’ll be able to determine with any variety of issues with out each placing a reputation to it.
You’re you and that’s all you’ll want to be.
Don’t identify it, don’t label, simply be.
Effectively, except you need to be run round being known as a beauty whore like me. In that case, eh, we are able to stick a label on it haha! 😀
Keep effectively and be good people right this moment! I do know you already superior people however a mild little reminder by no means hurts.
Thanks for at all times studying my babble.